Top 25 Things to Look for when Choosing a Mate [podcast]

If a potential mate you know isn’t enamored with your love for Jesus, such a person is not an equal yoking (2 Corinthians 6:14).

Hint: If they don’t respect and rejoice over your relationship with Jesus as the very “first love” of your life, they aren’t the one! (2 Corinthians 6:14-18; Revelation 2:4-5)

Jesus called this generation “An evil and adulterous generation.” (Matthew 12:39)

FACT: Today the vast majority of divorces are initiated by the wives, the wicked women. I purposely used the word “wicked” because if you are a true Christian you will never divorce your mate except due to a breaking of the covenant per biblical guidelines.

Gentlemen, any woman who isn’t bringing to the table the worship of the LORD, strictly according to His Word, isn’t coming in humbly SERVING like Rebecca, like Ruth, like the Proverbs 31 virtuous woman, isn’t ready to lay down her life and obey her husband, is a self-serving jezebel witch! RUN! (1 Timothy 2:9-14; Titus 2:3-5; 1 Peter 3:1-6)

SO you met someone who isn’t excited that you are saved? Not your mate! … unless God uses you to minister His truth straight up to them and they truly repent. Beware of fake repentance when people are trying to get you to marry them! Fruit, fruit, fruit (Matthew 7:16, 20).

IF he or she is not in the WORD, has no life of prayer, can’t have a biblical conversation, GOD didn’t sent them. Beware. Unequal yoking (2 Corinthians 6:14; Amos 3:3).

It’s always a blessing to see couples praying in public. God says men are to lead this (1 Timothy 2:8). Dear brothers in Christ, are we just another self-serving man? A date with a dear Christian lady is the bless-ed opportunity to make a statement for Christ.