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The Roles of Men and Women are Intentionally Unique and Complimentary [podcast]



If God is going to be glorified in a marriage, both parties MUST come to serve – in the specific God-ordained, stated roles of the husband and wife. Study them. Bow and worship the Almighty to whom we shall each and all give full account of our lives (Romans 14:10; Hebrews 9:27, etc.). Fresh repentance.

God’s not going to judge the man for doing the role of the woman but rather for the role of the man. And God is not going to judge the woman for trying to do the role of the man, but rather the role of the woman. It’s time to repent and get into our roles.

What God-Fearing Women should Look for in a Man/Potential Husband

If a man doesn’t work he doesn’t eat and he’s also worse than an infidel, right? Yes (2 Thessalonians 3:10; 1 Timothy 5:8). So what does that make a woman who doesn’t keep her home as God commands? (Titus 2:5)

If a man isn’t a provider, at least working that is, he’s not fit to be married, especially not to one of our LORD’s daughters (1 Timothy 5:8). A man of God will be leading those around him in prayer and in the Word (Luke 18:1; 1 Timothy 2:8). He is rich in God’s Word (Colossians 3:16). The God fearing man is sincere, a man of conviction, humble, authentic, and serving God and others as unto the LORD right where he is. He’s sold out to Christ and not some church or ministry! (See 1 Corinthians 2:2; Galatians 6:14.) Christ’s disciples are men of the cross – the blood of Christ’s cross and the cross He commanded them to take up daily (Matthew 26:28; Colossians 1:20; Luke 9:23-24). If not, if these things are not resident in some fashion in his life, he’s not qualified to be married to a God fearing woman. Run.

Any nation, people, are built upon the family unit (Psalms 11:3; 127-128). Putting women out of their non-negotiable God-given role as wives and mothers in the home, is the recipe to destroy a nation.

“Do not prostitute thy daughter, to cause her to be a whore; lest the land fall to whoredom, and the land become full of wickedness.” Leviticus 19:29

What God-Fearing Men should Look for in a Woman/Potential Wife

If a woman is not hospitable, coming into a relationship to be a “keeper at home,” a cleaner and keeper of a home in love and obedience. isn’t coming to serve in that stated capacity, she’s unqualified to be married to a godly man (Titus 2:3-5). Many women are not feminine in our day. Many have wasted their lives preparing to do the man’s role (bread winner, “strong,” etc.)…. yet they don’t nurture, nourish, clean, nor do they know their way around in a kitchen. Unreal. Run for your life and get a real wife.

David Taylor writes:

“Marriage: before there can be a true union manifested in the wedding ceremony, there has to be two funerals, manifested in self denial.”

The costs are high for doing things any way other than God’s way.

The Faithful Man and The Virtuous Woman – Psalms 112 and Proverbs 31

So we put the education of our children in the hands of the government and are now surprised at the evil results? What did we expect? What did you expect?

Many delusionals who walk in darkness by choice, pushed their daughters to go “get an education,” to play the role of the man, to compete with the man. Instead of believing God to provide those daughters a good man when they grew up, these devilish parents had more faith that their daughters would need to provide for themselves. Now those young ladies have a degree, are slaves to a job, can’t even cook a few meals, don’t clean, etc. The parents are largely to blame. They groomed their own daughters against the plan of God for women – to be “keepers at home” while their husbands worked (Titus 2:2-5).

The jezebel demons will erupt. The truth of God will not be altered by rebels (Romans 3:3-4).

God created women to worship Him, to marry and love their husbands and children…. to be “keepers at home.” Read HIS description here…

“The aged women likewise, that they be in behaviour as becometh holiness, not false accusers, not given to much wine, teachers of good things; 4 That they may teach the young women to be sober, to love their husbands, to love their children, 5 To be discreet, chaste, keepers at home, good, obedient to their own husbands, that the word of God be not blasphemed.” Titus 2:3-5

God’s way…..

The closer a man gets to Christ the more he will be moved to cherish and love his wife as Christ does His beloved church (Ephesians 5:25-31). The more a woman worships God, the more she will be conformed to the image of Christ, crucified with Him, and loving and serving her husband as God has commanded. Men and Women need to take very seriously the Lord’s instructions in His Word to them, which is the only way to bring His peace, love, order and satisfaction in their home. Romans 3:4). Learn to grow in your love for Him and His Word, and obey Him. If you are married or wish to be – be encouraged right now to begin reading Philippians 2:3-5 each and every morning from this day till you are with Jesus! The God-given and Bless-ed ROLE of the Man, of the Woman! God is all-wise and has a plan to BLESS! 

Nothing can replace a mother’s love – a mother at home loving and training up her and her husband’s children.

“A child reared by a loving Mother is blessed beyond belief. Most of what is good in me came from listening to my Mother while at her knee. More good came from my parents taking me to Sunday School. There is nothing so valuable, and important as a good Mother, NOTHING!” Troy G.

The reason the world is confused about gender, ROLES, is due to those who claim to be Christ’s not having the biblical revelation of such. Get your house in order gentlemen. YOU are the head of your wife, not her trinket-getter, or chore boy – and are to give your life for her AS UNTO THE LORD, in serving HIM (Ephesians 5:25-27). No such thing as a female elder, pastor (1 Timothy 2:11-12; 3:2, etc.). Christ is the head of the man and the man is the head of the wife (1 Corinthians 11:3). This is divinely non-negotiable.

Dear godly man: The strength, the condition of the manhood determines the power of the ministry. The cross.

“Give not thy strength (virtue, valor, goods, etc.) unto women, nor thy ways to that which destroyeth kings.” Proverbs 31:3

Satan attacked mankind through the woman in the Garden of Eden, causing the fall into sin and from God. Nothing has changed (1 Corinthians 10:13; 2 Corinthians 2:11).

We live in a jezebel corrupted society. Here’s a bit of proof: So, if a man who doesn’t work is considered a deadbeat or a loser, what does that make a woman who doesn’t cook and do house work, a woman who isn’t, as God ordained, a “keeper at home”? Read Titus 2:3-5. 

The love between one man and one woman and the marriage between them, is the only definition of a FAMILY God ordained. All else, any variation, is illegitimate, cursed.

God made the man, then He made the woman to be his “help meet” (Genesis 2:18, etc.). Anyone acting outside their created, non-negotiable role is rebellious, miserable, sad, empty, and unhappy (Matthew 6:33).

“But seek ye first the kingdom of God, and his righteousness; and all these things shall be added unto you.” Matthew 6:33

Simply doing things God’s way will always result in blessings.

“Trust in the LORD with all thine heart; and lean not unto thine own understanding. 6 In all thy ways acknowledge him, and he shall direct thy paths. 7 Be not wise in thine own eyes: fear the LORD, and depart from evil.” Proverbs 3:5-7

God fearing women who are teaching God’s Word to the younger women, are very special to the LORD and His body (Titus 2:1-5) Included in this message are just such amazing women, specifically concerning their observations on the family and the God-ordained role of the woman!

Nancy Cote writes:

This is God’s design and the best at that. Sad to say most families are not following God’s plan including those that would call themselves Christian. We see Many problems in marriages we have a lack of total submission and honor to God. God holds first the husband being the head of the home first submitted to God in reverent fear and love. And then the wife submitted to her husband’s leadership under God in fear and love. Both in reverence to God together to be blessed of God to over flow to children and ministries then a job.”

Darlene Dusza testifies:

“What a joy it was to be in the kitchen with my MOM she was my teacher. Just to watch her cook is how I learned to enjoy the love of homemaking. Make food– homemade is both healthy and a joy to make. Healthy is most needed in today’s diet.”

Those who rebel against God’s specific role for their lives (male or female), will perish in their own corruption. There will be not one rebel, not even one Ahab or Jezebel in Heaven (2 Kings 9:22, 33; Revelation 2:20-24). Think about that dear precious ones. Humble yourself, now, as Jesus said is absolutely necessary to be in Heaven. Memorize and live out Matthew 18:3-4 now.

Roles: Male and Female | Manhood |JEZEBEL BUSTED AND EXPOSED! | Family

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