Apostasy
How Has Women Leaving Their Homes Hurt Culture?
by The Transformed Wife, Lori Alexander
Many women despise my teachings on women being keepers at home. They will often give me names of all the great and powerful women who left their homes and did good things in order to back up their defense that women don’t need to be keepers at home. They will tell me that I am shaming women for teaching these things. They confuse shaming with conviction. God’s Word convicts them. If they feel shame, they are really feeling conviction. If they are doing what they know is right, no one would be able to shame them.
How has women leaving their homes hurt culture? It has hurt culture in many, many ways. Children are no longer being raised by their own mothers. They are being raised by daycare workers and teachers. “The rod and reproof give wisdom: but a child left to himself bringeth his mother to shame” (Proverbs 29:15). Children need a lot of teaching, training, and discipline. They aren’t receiving this if their mothers are away from them most of the day. These mothers are giving their best to others instead of to their children. These children are bringing shame to their mothers as they grow up. We are told this in God’s Word. All of the people we see rioting and burning down buildings were most likely not raised by a mother full time.
Women leaving their homes have hurt marriage. Women now initiate divorce 70 percent of the time since they no longer need to depend upon their husbands but can instead take half of what he owns and have them pay child support for many years. They are often too tired to put much time or energy into their marriages due to their careers. Marriage and raising children is FAR more important than having a career. There is nothing more important than raising the next generation, and children need a mother and father under the same roof and involved in their lives.
Women leaving their homes has hurt the old people. Old people no longer have their daughters around to help and give them comfort because their daughters are pursuing their careers. Young mothers hurt because they no longer have their mothers help because they have careers and they don’t have any older women involved in their lives due to careers. Neighbors don’t have people they can call on when they need help when all of the women are working away from their homes.
Women are more depressed and suicidal than ever before. They can’t expect anything different when they leave the clear path that God has chosen for them to pursue their own paths. God is our Creator and He is good. His ways for us are good. Women have been affected negatively since leaving their homes. Children have been abandoned and have been hurt the most. When the least among us is hurt the most, then we must carefully examine the path that we are on and switch course.
God-fearing women, I encourage you to go back to the paths that the Lord has laid out for you. If you think you can’t afford it, step out in faith in Almighty God. He tells us that His commands are not burdensome and that we can do all things through Christ who strengthens you. He wants you home full time. This is where He has given you to work and minister. Your work at home is not worthless! God will use you in powerful ways as you obey Him. He will bless you abundantly and the older you get, the more you will realize this.
Thus saith the LORD, Stand ye in the ways, and see, and ask for the old paths, where is the good way, and walk therein, and ye shall find rest for your souls. But they said, We will not walk therein. Jeremiah 6:16
GOD’S STATED WILL FOR YOUNG WOMEN – AND THE ULTIMATE WAY TO LIVE FULFILLED
“I will therefore that the younger women marry, bear children, guide the house, give none occasion to the adversary to speak reproachfully.” 1 Timothy 5:14
— marry
— bear children
— guide the house
The Role of the Woman – to bring new life into the world, to raise the next generation. Could there be a more noble calling?
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Nyisha
September 14, 2024 at 10:40 pm
Very well said! I was raised in a large family home with three generations. My grandfather worked and even when he retired, he maintained a small business. My grandmother was a stay-at-home mother and helped raised thirteen grandchildren. When I was a teenager, she always told us to get married and maintain the house. My mother was a single mom but had her parents’ support.
After high school, I wasn’t sure what direction I wanted my life to go. I started nursing school in my mid-twenties and was more career driven than ever. Fast forward to my oldest daughter being 8 years old, she was having behavior issues that only progressed as she got older. Unfortunately, I continued to somewhat ignore it and continued working to maintain bills. At the age of 14, my daughter was out of control at school and constantly stayed in trouble. It wasn’t until a divine visitation from the Lord Jesus that turned her around.
My youngest daughter is seven years old and I was on the same hamster wheel again. Drop off at school (due to my work hours I paid for afterschool), go to work, pick her up, go home and cook dinner. Not to mention I had to go over homework. I depended on teachers to do their job, but a mother’s job is never ending.
The Lord had been calling me away from my nursing career for almost two years. It was hard because quite naturally, I was used to earning a paycheck. I unenrolled my youngest daughter from public school to home school her. Now, I am committed to full time ministry.
Philippians 4:19 KJV-But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus.
Todd
September 14, 2024 at 11:19 pm
Nyisha! Thank you for sharing this. Amen sister. God is so good and He is certainly working in your wonderful family.
Jesus is King amen sister.