Jesus is Wonderful not us - we are wicked (Isaiah 9:6-7; Jeremiah 17:9). He didn't come to die because you were so wonderful or valuable. That is a ridiculous, psycho-babble, self-love lie friends. No such thing as a "Christian psychologist." Such is not only not found in Scripture, Paul warns us specifically against such agents of Satan (Col. 2:8). Beware.